It's come up in a lot of conversations lately and I felt like writing a post about it. I've had some people try to tell me that I do in fact like it but no I really do not. I also don't like the fact that people seem to think it's the only way to make a living.
But see there are a few things that bug me.
#1 Every body has a different learning style.
I remember my high school used to go on and on about how not everyone learns the same. I remember thinking: duh. BUT they still taught everyone the same way. Now granted there are resources (ie money) required to properly teach students in their own learning methods, and there are a few alternative schools but they are hard to get into (depending on the type). What bothers me is the very much here's how we're gonna teach you and you just have to suck it up and deal with it.
I'm very much a hands on learner which is why usually labs and projects were where I got my grades. So long as they were interesting.
Another reason why school was so tough for me. It was boring, I got bored very fast because either: I wasn't interested in the subject, or I'd already figured it out and wanted to move on. And a few subjects were genuinely hard for me.
#2 Get a diploma = get successful.
I'm sorry, but seriously? Here's a thing not many people know about me: I don't have a high school diploma.
Now, that's because of a really, really crappy technicality (ie a student counselor messing up my timetable, putting me in a class that I'd already taken, which, I learned when I was trying to send my transfers to college, to which I'd already been accepted, that oh by the way you never graduated cause you're missing a credit.... GOOD TIMES... learned that in AUGUST). Anywho.
I also didn't actually earn my certificate to said college cause I got sick and almost died (maybe not literally but it sure as heck felt it at the time), and after experiencing the uhm.... severe lack of organization the program had, I had no strong inclination to waste more time and money in that place.
That being said. I've got two really nice stables I'm working at in the field of work I love. So what was that about needing a diploma/certificate to make it anywhere?
Now don't get me wrong I've nothing against it if it's what you actually enjoy and genuinely need for the carreer you actually really want, or just genuinely want to go to school cause you like it (are you from mars?) But don't try to tell me that it's what you MUST DO TO SUCCEED.
Cause I also got a news flash for you.
Most people who get their diplomas struggle to find work within their field.
Also, most of the population is struggling with some form of debt (student loans), and are just coasting through those jobs with benefits people keep seeking after and are they actually happy?
Now, you know those super rich people who've started their own companies, changed the way institutions think? Those outside the box thinkers? Yeah, some do have education in the fancy smancy school sense, but a lot of them actually probably also are missing some papers.
And why are they successful?
Because they're not afraid to think outside the box, to find the creative solutions to life's problems and will probably gain a lot of wisdom from their lives.
Most importantly, they do what they love and didn't let people's words discourage them.
I remember once someone asked me what I was going to do with my certificate for Equine Management.
And I told him: "Be happy doing what I love."
Which, by the way, I am doing. Or at least I'm on the right path to what I really want to do.
Oh and again, don't actually have a diploma to speak of :P (Though the high school thing still ruffles my feathers when I think of it cause come on I earned that thing! I hated high school and I finished it :P)
And here's the thing too people seriously need to remember. Just because it's not formal school, doesn't mean someone doesn't have an education.
I'm pretty darn smart, and I lot of what I know specifically regarding horses, came from outside of school. Heck I've learned a lot more on the job that in that program. I also research topics of interest, and take a genuine interest in what's going on in the world and how it affects everything in it.
I also think school is bad for people's health. I mean stress is bad for you and school gives you stress. Plus with the crazy amount of homework and projects and the hours people put in, it's bad for your health, you get run down.
So get healthy and quit!
Nah I'm kidding, do what you want to do because it's what you want to do. So long as it will actually provide for your needs, and for the needs of your family (if you have/want one to support). I don't advocate being a bum for the rest of your life.
Amen! Good for you! I was taught my whole life you have to have a degree to be successful, but I know TONS of people who don't have that degree and who are. You can learn so much on your own, and I HAVE learned a lot on my own. Thankfully, my undergrad school was awesome. My grad . . not so much . . . and I don't miss school in the least. I'm seriously considering the homeschool thing for my future kids . . if there are any future kids >.>
ReplyDeleteYou'll most definitely get future kiddies! <3 :) You're an awesome mother and wife in the making!
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